Where Not to Take Her
Here’s a little fact of life, it’s hard to take a lady out and not spend money.
But that’s why we’re here, We’re here to show you how to date on a budget.
Good day once again, we are the JACKSON BROTHERS
And we’re here to show you how to spend the least amount of money on a date and still enjoy yourself.
Last week we told you to check out HAPPY HOUR as a first date option. Knowing where to go is important but what might be more important is where not to go.
That brings us to WHERE NOT TO TAKE HER...
Let’s start with the WINE BAR.
Sure we love our wine and there’s nothing better then sharing a glass or two with a beautiful woman. The wine bar though is not the way to go especially if the funds are low. Yes the wine bar sounds like a good idea, it sounds classy and romantic but don’t be fooled. The fact is… It’s a money trap.
It’s a little place we like to call gimmick Ave.
First off there’s usually no glass of wine under 10 bucks. So right there you know this ain’t your place. If they do have something under 10 it’s probably shit. Then to make it worse they measure out the wine with a corporate eye. They give you a nice healthy wine glass and fill it just under the half way mark. God that pisses us off. It’s just flat out insulting. If you do find yourself at the WINE BAR you will be tempted to try a few different wines, maybe even do a flight. Don’t get sucked into all that. That’ll just end up costing you DOLLARS. Get a bottle and cut your losses. If you’re only there for a short while you might get lucky and only be out 50 BUCKS but if you stick around you’ll probably have to order apps and that just leads to more wine, which means you’ll be spending over a 100 bucks and that we just can’t have. Not when you’re on a budget.
So if the funds are low you’re better off just staying away. That’s right. just stay away from the WINE BAR.
Here’s a few other places that won’t necessarily cost you big dollars but it will cost you time and your TIME is valuable. Remember that, so use it wisely. Plus none of these places will progress the DATING process so make sure you stay away during the first few dates. The goal for dating at least when it’s new is to make a CONNECTION. These places won’t help you at all. All you get is distraction with no interaction and that just ain’t right.
If you’re married or in a 3 year relationship or you just don’t want to talk to her, well then the movies is a good way to kill a couple of hours. But it will cost you. Two tickets will run you at least 20 bucks. Then you have to get the giant soda, the giant popcorn, maybe even some Twizzlers. You’ll end up spending 50 bucks before the movie even starts and then what? Then to continue the night you’ll probably have to take her out to get something to eat. More DOLLARS being spent. For the night you most likely will be out over a 100 BUCKS. NO. This is just stupid. We won’t have it. Especially this early in the dating process. AVOID THE MOVIES.
PLAYS and IMPROV SHOWS
Here’s a few things a few things about plays and improv shows……Maybe …Maybe you get lucky and see a good play but not likely and especially not on a budget. It will be a friend of hers or somebody she knows doing a play. AVOID it. And IMPROV shows well…Besides usually being awful, they’re just a TIME TRAP. And you won’t get to know the woman any better. Plus you might get pissed at her for dragging you to these types of things. AVOID IMPROV.
Let’s talk about NIGHTCLUBS.
Nightclubs are just a bad idea. We should just end it there but let’s get into it a bit. You go to these clubs to pick up woman, so why would you take a date there? You wouldn’t and you shouldn’t. The drinks are over priced and then you got some guy creeping in there buying your girl a drink while you take a piss. Could end in a fight. Who knows? You shouldn’t be in that situation. Plus all the other ladies in the club are dressed to well…..Show off what they’re working with. And you’re a man so you’ll probably be looking and you’ll probably get caught looking. AVOID NIGHTCLUBS.
Here’s one more thing, AVOID hanging out with her friends. Especially early on.
This does nothing for you but put pressure on you and who needs that. Dating is hard enough as it is. Plus it will end up costing you more DOLLARS. You’ll get roped into buying her friends a round or two just to look like a good guy. Don’t get sucked into that nonsense. So you’ll be spending money and getting judged by ladies who are jealous cause they’re not on a date or they’re just plain HATERS. It’s a no win situation.
AVOID her friends.
WHEREVER HER FRIENDS ARE-STUPID
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Until the next time-PEACE & LOVE