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The first date, happy hour.

Living paycheck to paycheck sucks, we all know that.
It especially sucks if want to date. But dating doesn’t have to be expensive if you do it right.
     Hi there, we’re the JACKSON BROTHERS and what we are here to do is to show you how spend the least amount of money while dating. It’s a simple approach to an   age old problem, dating when the funds are low.
     Now of course you’re going to have to spend some money, come on…. That just goes with the territory. No way around that, but what we’re going to do is show you how to spend the least amount of cash as possible.  We’ll show you how to work every situation to your advantage, how to provide the right scenery and the right vibe to allow the sparks to fly and the romance to flow.
     There’s a few things you’ll need to know in order to proceed and it won’t cost you a dime. So pay attention.
Here’s four words you’ll need to live by.
 
CONFIDENCE
CONTROL
PATIENCE
CLASS
 
Four simple words that will mean everything in your dating life. So take it in and lets move on.
 
The First Date: HAPPY HOUR
 
With the first date you don’t really know what you’re getting into. Oh you think you might but the truth is you don’t. Trust us on this. So there’s no reason to get burned for
a lot of cash. That’s why HAPPY HOUR is your best bet. Happy Hour? Yes that’s right and here’s why.
   First it’s a little more casual, more relaxed. The stakes don’t seem as high. Now because this is your first date you’ll want to meet her there. That way if things don’t go as planned you won’t be tied down, you’ll be free to go when you please. Hey hope for the best but be ready for the worst. This is the dating world after all.
   When it comes to picking the place to meet up make sure YOU suggest it. Women do like a man with CONFIDENCE. They do tend to like a man who knows what he’s doing. So even if you don’t FAKE IT. If she does suggest a place play it off and say that sounds good but I’ve been dying to try this other place. Another reason for this is that you want to get the lovely lady out of her comfort zone. No need to go to her local hangout where she knows the bartender. You don’t want to run into any of her co-workers but most importantly you don’t want to run into bad prices. So do your research. No need to get blindsided and spend a lot of dough. Let’s remember this is the FIRST DATE, so spending a lot of dough would be  like getting kicked in the nuts and nobody likes getting kicked in the nuts. Hey at least we don’t.
    Here’s the thing about spending money on dates, especially with someone you don’t really know. When you spend you expect and on the first date you shouldn’t expect much. When you do you set yourself up for failure. So be loose but be a gentleman and always show CLASS.
      Now that you met her at the place of YOUR choosing, find a way to compliment the young lady. You don’t need to wait for that magic moment because you’re the one making the magic and there’s no better time then right now. Look at her and see where she put some time and effort in and compliment her. It’s that simple. Now is she shows up looking like a slob like she just rolled out of bed or she just got out of the gym, well you know where you stand and that’s why you met her there, just incase you need to make that fast getaway. Hey lets hope she looks good and carries herself well but if not you’re prepared.
 
Order drinks: BUT DON’T DO SHOTS
 
This is important. Shots are a waste of money. Let’s say that again. Shots are a waste of money. Strictly amateur hour.  There’s no need for it. Plus it could lead you to getting sloppy drunk. There’s no need to get sloppy drunk on the first date. You must always stay in CONTROL. If things go well you should have many a drunken night with this lady but it shouldn’t be on the first date. Now if that’s what she’s into, if she likes getting sloppy drunk all the time. Well that’s a decision you’ll have to make for yourself. We’d advise against it. Been there done that.
          Because it’s that time of the day you will have to order food. Don’t get scared we’re just talking APPS. That’s why you’re at HAPPY HOUR. Order apps. Apps should be half price and no need to order too much. Two appetizers should do. Two apps that you can both share. Remember sharing is ROMANTIC and romance should always be on your mind. So now you’re not just drinking, you’re  drinking, eating and getting familiar. Food will help you get to know her likes, dislikes and all that type of shit. Remember keep things flirty. You’re on a date, you’re not hanging out with your buddy watching the game.
        The goal of the night shouldn’t be to get in her pants and get yourself laid. What we’re doing here is talking about dating. We’re not talking about trying to get some tail. That’s someone else’s gimmick. What you’re trying to find out on the first date is if you want to see this person again. If you want to invest your time, emotions and most importantly your MONEY. A kiss good night will probably mean more in the long run so keep that in mind.. Let’s be honest here and this may even sound stupid but it’s true. When you sleep with a chick right off the bat chances are you won’t see her again. Even if you both had a hell of a time. See it does sound stupid but 9 times out of 10 it’s the truth. Who knows why? It might be shame, embarrassment or something dating back to her childhood. Hey we don’t have time to get into all that and neither do you. So whatever it may be if you like this Woman, if you think this could lead somewhere then PATIENCE is the key.
 
 
JACKSON RECAP
 
So let’s remember a few things before you get out there. Be CONFIDENT, she agreed to go out with you so feel good about that.
Stay in CONTROL. No need to get sloppy drunk. Don’t do shots.
Always show CLASS. Be a gentleman, there’s a shortage them out there these days. 
And have some PATIENCE.  It’s only the first date for Christ’s sake, Besides you never know she could be worth it.
 
Alright that’s it for now. Come back next time and we’ll tell you where not to take her.
See you then and remember don’t let your wallet run your love life.
    

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